men

     I spend most of my at home time with Dave and Drew......the men.  They will sit with messes around them, oblivious to the starving, meowing kitty.  Selective hearing, I say.  But, in their defense, they will clean up if I point things out to them (and complain).  My dream is to come home and have one of them tell me he cleaned the bathroom without even being asked.  They have chores.....a list made by me as a solution to my nagging them......and, guess what?  Yep, they still don't get done without a reminder from me.  If some one knows how to motivate men to clean.......let me in on your sorcery.....please!