She made it!
I am the shortest one in the family............ by about 1 foot!
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Ode to Mom
I was reading back through some old posts, and I realized that though I mention my dad a lot, I hardly ever talk about my mom. She has made just as much of an impreesion in my life, but while my dad chooses crazy antics and sound advice, my mom's support comes from strong hugs and whispered "I love you"s.
I remember standing in the kitchen while she taught me to make gravy (stir, stir, stir so the flour does not clump) and being there to wrap me in a warm towel after a bath. She would drop anything when I needed a hug and hold me untill it was all better. She still does. Even though I am far away, she is there when I call her, there to listen when parenting teenagers gets to be too much. She puts everything into perspective and tells me that my kids are wonderful people; that I am doing a good job, that I don't need to worry.
I have often thought about the mother-daughter relationship. For a long time, I was not sure how I fit in as a "step mother". When the girls came to live with us I was not sure how to make the transition from "week end mom" to "full time mom". Admitedly, I made mistakes. But, I only wanted what was best for them. I always had their best interest at heart. I had my own mom to serve as a role model when I was unsure. Now the girls are young women and though our relationships are not perfect, I love them. They are my girls, and I am proud of them. When they make mitakes, I will always be there with a hug.
I am also lucky to have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. Though we are still getting to know each other, she makes me feel like one heck of a lady for putting up with her son (it's my pleasure, believe me!). She helps me feel confidant that I am doing right by my kids and offers support when I am having a hard time. She spoils my children, and I appreciate all she has to offer as a mom and grandma. Here is a heartfelt thanks and I love you.
I made some bad choices as a young adult, I am sure it was hard for my mom to watch. Even though she did not agree, she was there no matter how bad I screwed up. She held my hand through the worst of it. Strong, silent support. When she watched her teenage daughter become a mother she was there, holding my hand. When I finally ending things with Jeremy, she was there. When I moved back home, she was there. When I learned the hard lessons that a young woman must learn, she was there. And, when Dave proposed she held my hand as her eyes filled with happy tears.
Mom, I would not be the woman, wife and mother I am today without you. I love you!
I remember standing in the kitchen while she taught me to make gravy (stir, stir, stir so the flour does not clump) and being there to wrap me in a warm towel after a bath. She would drop anything when I needed a hug and hold me untill it was all better. She still does. Even though I am far away, she is there when I call her, there to listen when parenting teenagers gets to be too much. She puts everything into perspective and tells me that my kids are wonderful people; that I am doing a good job, that I don't need to worry.
I have often thought about the mother-daughter relationship. For a long time, I was not sure how I fit in as a "step mother". When the girls came to live with us I was not sure how to make the transition from "week end mom" to "full time mom". Admitedly, I made mistakes. But, I only wanted what was best for them. I always had their best interest at heart. I had my own mom to serve as a role model when I was unsure. Now the girls are young women and though our relationships are not perfect, I love them. They are my girls, and I am proud of them. When they make mitakes, I will always be there with a hug.
I am also lucky to have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. Though we are still getting to know each other, she makes me feel like one heck of a lady for putting up with her son (it's my pleasure, believe me!). She helps me feel confidant that I am doing right by my kids and offers support when I am having a hard time. She spoils my children, and I appreciate all she has to offer as a mom and grandma. Here is a heartfelt thanks and I love you.
I made some bad choices as a young adult, I am sure it was hard for my mom to watch. Even though she did not agree, she was there no matter how bad I screwed up. She held my hand through the worst of it. Strong, silent support. When she watched her teenage daughter become a mother she was there, holding my hand. When I finally ending things with Jeremy, she was there. When I moved back home, she was there. When I learned the hard lessons that a young woman must learn, she was there. And, when Dave proposed she held my hand as her eyes filled with happy tears.
Mom, I would not be the woman, wife and mother I am today without you. I love you!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Love what you do
My dad always told me you can rent out your mind, or you can rent out your back-it's up to you. I am lucky to have a job that I love (where I rent my mind). And, because I love my job I think I am able to do it better. The docs I work with are like older brothers to me. The girls are some of my best friends. We laugh and joke with each other, we are there to support each other---oh and we take care of our patients as well.
The patient care is challenging, rewarding and inspiring. I love interacting with them, watching their children grow up, supporting them through their pregnancies. My job is really like a second home to me. I can't imagine working any where else. I really feel the impact that we make in the lives of our patients.
I realize that I am blessed to have this great place to work. I appreciate CRFM. I think it is important to do something you love, and to do it with all your heart.
The patient care is challenging, rewarding and inspiring. I love interacting with them, watching their children grow up, supporting them through their pregnancies. My job is really like a second home to me. I can't imagine working any where else. I really feel the impact that we make in the lives of our patients.
I realize that I am blessed to have this great place to work. I appreciate CRFM. I think it is important to do something you love, and to do it with all your heart.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
SPRING
I think I can officially switch the thermostat to the "cool" setting. Spring is here to stay; no more snow, I hope. The Mack house is getting ready for the end of the school year. Heather's graduation will be on Friday the 28th at 4 pm in the SUU Centrum. We are planning to have drinks and refreshments at our place after the ceremony. Heahter is having her senoir pictures done soon. She is at the state track finals this weekend--we will find out tonight how she did (Go Cedar Redman!) Theresa got all of her AP art turned in, now her portfolio is being reviewed to see if she will get the AP credit. Her pieces were wonderful; so full of talent! She drew a great elephant picture for me for Mother's day. Drew got 100% on his geography test, his grades keep getting better and better. He kicks Dave's butt on the XBOX--funny to watch. We are excited for Summer to begin. I am trying to plan a few family hikes. We have been waiting for warm weather to go on the Kanarraville Falls trail, as it is mostly through the stream that goes up the canyon. I can't wait. Hopefully we will get up to Bruce Canyon this year, too. I am also hoping to get up to SLC this summer to see everyone. I will keep you all posted.
Monday, May 3, 2010
I heart cheap produce
About a month ago, Dave and I ordered a basket of fruits and veggies from Bountiful Baskets.org. One of my co workers told me about it. Bountiful Baskets is a food co-op that buys produce in bulk and then sells it at a very discounted rate. You need to register on their website, order your basket on Monday evening, and pick up the basket at various locations on Saturday morning, but you get a laundry basket (literally) full of fruit and veggies; all for $15.00 I think there is a pick up site in most communities around Utah. All they ask is that you volunteer for them 4-5 times a year to help keep costs down.
We have recived tons of apples, pineapple, clementines, lettuce, tomatoes, potatoes and carrots. We also get some exotic items such as mangoes, swiss chard and eggplant. Every week is a little different. We liked it so much, we started ordering 2 baskets every week. We have never bought this much produce because it gets so expensive. Now I am begging the kids to eat more apples and bananas. I have fresh fruit in our freezer for smoothies, as well as in our fruit bowl for snacks. We always have a fresh veggie for dinner. We had never tried swiss chard, but Dave and I both like it (kind of likes beets mixed with spinach). We also have broccoli, carrots, celery and onions chopped and stored in our frezer to add to whatever Dave is cooking.
We feel better, meals are more exciting and we are saving a ton of money on our groceries. We have just had to by a few cuts of meat, dairy, a few pantry items and a few side dishes. It is great for me, I have found it easier to maker better food choices with fresh produce always around. (I am down a total of 32 pounds as of today). You have gotta try it!
We have recived tons of apples, pineapple, clementines, lettuce, tomatoes, potatoes and carrots. We also get some exotic items such as mangoes, swiss chard and eggplant. Every week is a little different. We liked it so much, we started ordering 2 baskets every week. We have never bought this much produce because it gets so expensive. Now I am begging the kids to eat more apples and bananas. I have fresh fruit in our freezer for smoothies, as well as in our fruit bowl for snacks. We always have a fresh veggie for dinner. We had never tried swiss chard, but Dave and I both like it (kind of likes beets mixed with spinach). We also have broccoli, carrots, celery and onions chopped and stored in our frezer to add to whatever Dave is cooking.
We feel better, meals are more exciting and we are saving a ton of money on our groceries. We have just had to by a few cuts of meat, dairy, a few pantry items and a few side dishes. It is great for me, I have found it easier to maker better food choices with fresh produce always around. (I am down a total of 32 pounds as of today). You have gotta try it!
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